Caregiver At The Age Of Eight

Mtendere, About the Malawi Project

Both Father and Mother Are Dead

    A sudden, emergency trip to the lakeshore trading center of Nkhotokota resulted in three children from a family of 12 coming to Mtendere for care. The father and mother had both died, and her older sister had to get a job in order to attempt to care for the family. It fell to young Stella Banda to care for the others who were younger than herself, all 10 of them! She was only 8 years old at the time.

    The rushed trip on that July day had taken place as a result of a request from the tribal authority in the area. They had become aware of the plight of the children who were destitute and living alone. Representatives from Mtendere picked up the three children who seemed to be in the worst condition of the 12 at the time. Stella and her sisters, Elana and Jannet came to Mtendere to live.

    Today Stella is becoming both a beautiful, as well as a successful child as she progresses in her school studies and dreams of one day becoming a nurse.

    Pictures show Stella shortly after her arrival at Blessings, the enjoying meal with American guests several months later.

    The children of Mtendere Village are supported through contributions to the 100-X Missions Group in Montgomery, Alabama. For further information about assisting children at Mtendere contact http://100xmissions.org/

 

 

The Beggars Wanted to Use Her

Mtendere

     "The beggars wanted to use her for their own benefits," reported Moses Khombe, the Communication Director for Blessings Hospital when young Lekelina was brought to the village from the Minister of Gender for Malawi. If that was not enough he added more to the report. "The girl might have been abused by this so called uncle, and she is a double orphan with no known relative both in Zomba and Lilongwe. Her blind parents had came to Lilongwe sometime back and they have been on the street ever since."

    Lekilena was born to a blind street beggar known as Ellena. Her mother passed away in 2000 when she was only months old. Her father was also a street beggar and his whereabouts is unknown.

Living Under a Bridge
    After the death of the mother she was placed in the hands of a grandmother who was also a blind beggar. The Regional Social Welfare Office tried to take the child after the death of the mother but failed because the grandmother refused. It appeared that she was using young Lekilena as a shield for her begging in order to gain sympathy. Lekilena and her grandmother were living under a bridge in the Old Town portion of the capital city.

    The grandmother passed away leaving little Lekilena in the hands of a man who called himself her uncle, though it appears there was no relationship. He was apparently using her in his begging.

Abandoned to the Street
    Due to lack of care the child was abandoned in the street. A businessman found her, cleaned her up and contacted the Regional Social Welfare in Lilongwe. The Minister of Gender contacted Mtendere so she could be cared for and raised properly.

    Today Lekilena lives a happy life with the other children at Mtendere and is enrolled in the public school in Lumbadzi. The pictures show Lekilena shortly after her arrival at Blessings and gain several months later.

    The children of Mtendere Village are supported through contributions to the 100-X Missions Group in Montgomery, Alabama. For further information about assisting children at Mtendere contact 100-X Missions Group

 

She Will Be Dead By Morning

Mtendere, Malawi Healthcare

    Early on Sunday morning we learned some of the staff had made a rushed trip to the lakeside side, historic community of Nkhotokoto north and east of us. The trading center is located over a hundred miles away from Lumbadzi. It seemed there was a family of twelve children who were in a severe situation after the death of both of their parents. Someone had called Mtendere to come quickly. All day we waited for the return to learn the status of the children.

    That night the car arrived at Blessing, and inside were three children, three of the twelve. Three who were in the worst condition. It was believed the others would be able to survive for the time being on their own. But it was the youngest that was nearest death. Little Jannet. Only a little over a year old Jannet was down to a weight of only 7 kilograms (Could that actually mean she weighted less than 2 lbs?). The medical people decided it was too late for Jannet. She would not survive the night. The other two children were taken to one of the houses at Mtendere and Jannet over was given to the care of the medical staff. We went to bed that night convinced that with the morning sun we would be making preparations for a funeral. It seems so unfair. A tiny baby. There was nothing she had done to cause this. Her mother had died when we she just a few months old and her father had died just one week later. No matter how hard they tried the older children could not find enough food for the family.

    The sun arose around 5:40 AM and we were up and on the way down to the hospital to find out the status of the baby’s condition. To our complete surprise Jannet was still alive. She had survived the night. What a fighter. During that day and the days to come the staff from Mtendere and the hospital gave Jannet special attention. She not only survived but started to improve. In a single week she reached a weight of 8.5 kilograms. In three weeks she was up to 10.5. Although it was some time before Jannet would respond to anyone within a few months she would smile and seek the attention of some of the staff members at the compound. Soon Jannet became the center of attention and the other children often competed with who was going to care for Jannet.

    Today Jannet continues to make progress at her home at Mtendere. Two of her siblings are still residents of the village and all three are proving to be a great asset to the community. The little girl who was expected to be dead by morning is alive and well and is now nearing 5 years of age.

 Pictures

The first picture is of Jannet in tne early weeks after her arrival at Mtendere. The second picture is of her nearly two years after her arrival.

     The children of Mtendere Village are being sponsored by the 100-X group in Montgomery, Alabama. For further infomation about helping the chldren at Mtendere contact http://100xmissions.org/

I Am Sure I Am Innocent

Mtendere, People of Malawi, Be The Change

"My Name is Innocent"

His name is Innocent Banda and in many ways he lives up to what his name implies. First, he has become parentless through no fault of his own. He is "innocent". And "Innocent" was the name his parents gave him at birth. He does not know why they chose that name and will probably never know. His father died and his mother remarried and moved away. Innocent now lives in the Chimwemwe (Joy) House at Mtendere Village and acts as a senior guide and leader to the younger children in the children’s village. Innocent celebrates his birthday each year without fanfare and most often without recognition or gifts on January 5. He is the firstborn of two children. He also has a sister. His original home was in the Dowa District in a tiny village called Mkanile 2. His tribal authority was Chief Chakhaza. Innocent speaks concerning his life before coming to Mtendere, "I lived with my uncle. I slept on a bad sleeping mat, had little food, clothing and no parental care. My uncle fed his kids first, and sometimes there was nothing left for me to eat." Now, after making his home at Mtendere Children’s Village Innocent can report, "My life is very, very good. I am very happy. I have a nice bed and good food. I would like to thank God for bringing me here. My prayer is for those kids who are still living in the villages who are unable to come here."

    During 2007 Innocent found his calling in song leading and preaching at the local congregation in Lumbadzi, Malawi. In August he was selected as one of the speakers at a giant youth rally in Lilongwe. Innocent reports that he wants to grow up and go about helping other people. He is off to a good start.

Dowa District Is North of the Capital
    The Dowa District is the district or state just north of the capital of Lilongwe. It is situated just across the river to the north from the Lilongwe District where Mtendere Village is located. From his home in Mtendere Innocent can actually look over the hills to the north and see his home district. In 2001 the Dowa District had an estimated population of 434,693. The population is expected to reach 526,604 in 2008. The Dowa District is home to the Mponela Trading Center and the Madisi Trading Center where many of the early programs of the Malawi Project originated.

 

An Obsession With Drawing

MalawiCulture, Mtendere, Be The Change

His Passion Reaches Into
Mtendere Children’s Village

    "Kingsley Maigwa is my name; I live for art and I paint to live. From the moment I received a slate and pencil at primary school, I became obsessed with drawing. I use oil or acrylic paint on canvas but I like to experiment using fabric and other materials to add a third dimension to the people in my portraits. In the painting here the little girl’s clothes stand out from the background. In other cases a man’s hat rim reaches right out of the picture at you, made of the real material that the paint elsewhere simply imitates.

    For the past three years I have been preparing paintings for the American teams that come to Malawi to help the people. I have painted a number of scenes on the Blessings property, and I was able to paint the entire children’s part of the new wing of the hospital. Now I am spending a lot of time helping the children at Mtendere learn to paint. I volunteer and come to their homes each week to encourage them. Some of them are quite good and a number have real talent to paint and draw.

    When I am not helping the children I paint the scenes of everyday life that I find around me, both in my home village of Zomba in the southeast part of Malawi and in the capital city of Lilongwe where I now live with my wife and son.

    Life is not easy in Malawi but I work extra hard and, God willing, I will be able to continue making a living as an artist."

    The Malawi Project is pleased to be working with Kingsley and have him making this contribution to the future of the children of Mtendere. For more information about Kingsley and his work as a painter contact him at KingMaigwa[at]yahoo.co.uk.

Orphans learning to draw.